I am not in the best position, but I am really looking to settle down
Marriage, Long term relationship
I do not want a relationship based solely on sex. What this means is that I will not fall into bed on the first couple of dates. Getting to know each other outside of sex is more important first. That doesn't mean tell me you want the same and then radically change your mind. Nor does it mean lie to me about wanting a relationship only to turn around and think you will get me into bed. I hate to be very specific about this, but I am looking for a serious, long term partnership where sex is apart of the whole picture and not the main subject. The many men I've talk to on here have been more interested about what I can do for them sexually then what we could do together to build and good relationship. I had to put this first. Too many times I've had guys thinking I'm looking for some sort of tinder hook-up. That isn't me.